A narcissist will not recognize any boundaries between you and him when it comes to getting his narcissistic needs met. Why does my narcissistic husband cross personal boundaries?Ī narcissist will cross personal boundaries deliberately because he wants to hurt you for what he considers your fault. A narcissist will make promises to their wives and children only to deny having made them when reminded. Narcissists break promises as they are alien to the concept of responsibility and in love with the idea of taking advantage of people whenever they feel fit. Why do narcissistic husbands break promises? Don’t ever expect a narcissist to defend you even when a family member mistreats you. You may find your narcissistic husband judging you because narcissists are incapable of empathizing with others, and hate the fact that they have responsibility to their wives. Why is my narcissistic husband judging me? I will continue to write because of women like the one above and, children who are harmed daily by narcissistic fathers and because knowing we aren’t alone is the only comfort to be found when tossed away by a narcissist.ĪND, in the hope that fewer women will give these men the to opportunity to toss them away. But, unlike the narcissist, I’ve got your back. After 15 years of being divorced from a narcissist, it is hard for me to write about the subject, it takes me right back to that time in my life. Yes, it is hard to wrap your head around those facts. She wrote, “Is it hard to wrap my head around the fact that love was a lie for the best years of my life? That the narcissist never even so much as cared about us? That I and my son were a convenient game, easily disposed of, easily erased? That he could have cared less at any given point over those years if we lived or died? He chose to divorce her and in doing so simply dismissed her and their child from his life. I received an email the other day from a woman who is desperately in love with a narcissistic ex. The main condition being, your willingness to mirror back to him his grandiose view of who he is, or thinks he is. The narcissist’s feelings (what little there are) are based on conditions.
Whatever his reasons, there is no line between you and him getting his narcissistic needs met. He may wish to hurt you for some unknown harm he feels you’ve done. The narcissist crosses personal boundaries with specific intentions. No one is more important than the narcissist! Enough said. Buy a pack of gold stars make a chart with his name and treat him like the child he is.
If he washes the dishes, mows the yard, attends a parent/teacher conference he wants credit and stroking. Doing something for the sake of doing something:
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